I have a flirtation-ship going on with this guy and we were supposed to hang out for the first time, just us, today. I confirmed this morning, he said he'd let me know when his friends left his place and he was on his way over. I never heard anything from him after that. I ended up just kinda sitting around waiting to hear from him all day and now I feel like an idiot.
Suggestions on what I should do or what you would do?
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That's fucked up. I hate it when people do that and, fuck yes, I call people on it. It's inexcusable. Basically, you have two options: either don't talk to him again -- which is kind of boring -- or call him out on it. It just depends on your personality and what you want. If it's not someone I really value, I just stop talking to them but if they're someone who means something to me, then I let them know about it. Sometimes we come to an understanding and our friendship is strengthened but I've also lost friends who were unwilling to take responsibility and/or change. So think about whether your truly value this person or not and then decide your course of action from there based on what you hope will happen.0