things have been really complicated since he ended a really long term relationship almost 2 years ago, but very serious and like almost 8 years long. we stopped seeing each other for a long time and he called his way back into my life basically. he blew up at me tonight after I started asking him about what we are, he got really upset, and just wanted to leave. we fought for a long time outside, about nothing that made any sense. each one accused to other of ruining what we had, which had been going so great since we started seeing each other again. when I told him if he left I would never talk to him again he said things like please don't say that and I know you don't mean that. I feel like we got a lot of anger and frustration out, but in the wrong way. we ended things by telling the other how much we cared about each other, and how much we had missed each other. I asked him if he wanted me to call him to talk about this another time and he said yes I want to talk about this another time. what do I make of this? I don't know how to talk to him without him flipping out and feeling like I'm trying to manipulate him into something or pushing him. he just took everything I said the wrong way. What should I do?
- he cares, give it time and talk to him againVote A
- he can't handle it, don't talk to himVote B