I just had to write an article about chivalry vs. equal rights. It can get tricky with guys. We want to do the right thing, but sometimes, don't know what that is. Ladies, when do you want us to be chivalrous and when do you wanted to be treated as an equal. Guys, how do you navigate this?
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Do hold open doors, Don't run ahead and be obnoxious about holding open doors.
Do help with carrying stuff, Don't make a big deal out of it if she says that she'a got it.
Some people say chivalry is paying for the dates, but if she wants to pitch in, let her.
Chivalry is being able to hold her purse if she needs you to without you being embarassed about it.
I guess some say offering your jacket is chivalry too. but if she doesn't want to wear the jacket, don't make a scene and insist upon it.
I'm just going off the cliche stuff.2