[Please do not say I'm stupid for asking him out or that it was mean of me to ask him if I don't think he is attractive]
Last week we went on a date and I had a great time. He was a gentlemen. He paid, he drove , my parents like him. I take medication to help me think and focus. Last week, I didn't take them because I had none left. So I wasn't thinking when I asked him to be my boyfriend and I told him I liked him alot. So he agreed to go out. I love how sweet he is, and he sends me the nicest good morning and goodnight text. His parents like me. I do like him alot, but I'm not attracted to him at all. He is super romantic and I'm adjusting slowly to it. Don't think I'm a sl*t or anything, I want a guy who wouldn't be afraid to put his hands on my hips, but he thinks that's 'pigish' all we do is cuddle and hold hands. Is this a bad relationship?
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I recommend the opposite of somethingwicked, if you are not attracted to him now, it not going to change later. Maybe very very rarely it does, but very doubtful. I did that twice... the guys were so nice sweet and gentlemanly and a lot of fun to be with. I thought I would eventually start being attracted to them... but it never happened. Not even close. The first one lasted 7 months and the next guy was almost 5 months. So I recommend to not waste each others time and decide on beong just friends. If you stay with him, you will eventually really hurt him.1