Well I made a PoF profile, and although I'm not actively messaging girls seeking dates, I thought it was odd how I've only gotten a couple profile views. I'm not on it much but I've already browsed easily 20-30 profiles, so it had me wondering, are girls just too busy responding to all their messages to browse guys or what?
So people, are you or have you been on a dating site? Which Site? How many messages did you get per week?
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I think even in this modern world of social media, people are still under the impression that men should always make the first move. I disagree, but women definitely get messaged more often. I got about 50 messages within the first 2 days of activating my profile. Whenever you newly activate, or reactivate after 6 months, you automatically get boosted to the top of the "featured" lists so that daily members who haven't had any luck recently can see the new options more easily. But after a week or so, those numbers trickle down to 1-2 every month or so, and I still get random messages, even after I deactivated my profile, and changed my status and details. FYI, I always felt much safer on OKCupid, and I feel that their interface is much more in depth and informative.1