i really like this guy and he likes me but he's 2 years younger than me. and im not sure if it would be wrong dating a guy 2 years young than me? please help any advice?
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According to the data I've collected from years of superficial research on shy guys, I would guess "your guy" is a shy one where romantic relationships are concerned. Typically, a stare or gaze lasting longer than 2-3 seconds is the norm for a friendly, non-confrontational nonverbal interaction. Normatively, anything longer is pretty significant in either a good, romantic way or a dangerous, predatory way. I've had a thing for a guy just as you describe for a long time, and I always get the blank/poker face. If he is indeed shy, and you travel in a pack frequently, he is probably too intimidated to approach you, maybe even without the flock of friends. The fear of rejection is just too great and he might glorify you as many people do when they have an infatuation/crush. Granted, it IS the 21st century, so if you really like this guy, it may behoove you to initiate conversation with him. The guy doesn't always have to approach the girl. At least, I don't think they should be expected to, as freaky as that may make things for you. Best of luck!3