Okay so I've been dating this guy for awhile now, he's really clingy, already talks about having kids and living our lives together forever, (we've been together for like 3 weeks) and he's just wearing me out. He always has to know what I'm doing and who I'm with, and we always have to be texting or talking. I was thinking about breaking it off. I know he thinks he's truly in love with me, but I feel like he's leading himself on and making me seem better than I am. The thing is I'm scared to leave him because he has a shitty home life and he says he wouldn't be able to live without me and that if I ever left him he'd probably just end his life, and this worries me because I generally care for him and I really just don't want him to get hurt. I'm just really lost right now and I need help. Please and thank you.
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Well this guy does love you. I'd say give him more time if you care. If not, there is nothing you can do if he will end his life for you then there is nothing you can do. I was In a similar situation years ago, difference was that she led me on and then tossed me when her ex portended to be back, it turned out he was back for one day only to bang her one more time and leave !!! She called the next week, 80-90 calls a day and 40-50 message. Suicide threats mostly!!! I ignored her cause my friend told me to and not gonna lie I didn't want to talk her anymore she broke my heart. she did it... She killed herself. This drove me crazy, I felt guilty. Went to therapies. First thing therapist said tho was that "if she was crazy enough to kill herself because of someone else then let her".
So you decide, can you live with that? Maybe my therapist was right, she was kinda crazy... Still I could've changed something... Or not? I don't know.0
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