So im 22 and I've never had a boyfriend
The last guy i dated said i was confident, cute and had a stupid humour which he liked, he also said i was a cool girl?
What is a cool girl by the way?
Anyways accordning to my brother i dont have a personality and he tells me to get one. He said i need to be more interesting so that boys will like me. Honestly i think im interesting, i go to shcool, i work, i work out, i travel, I've lived in 2 different countries, so isn't that interesting enough? i speak 3 languages fluently.. i mean come on.. i also have writing as a hobby..
So yea he said i dont have a boyfriend because i dont have a personality, and people think im funny..
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You are sooo snooozeville, ZZZZ see I'm falling asleep already. What you need to do is find more hobbies that interest men and not just you. Yes, men do most of the stuff you just named, but men do a lot more stuff as well such as sports, games, cars, fun, etc etc. Of course all of that stuff you are doing is great, but most women are doing that nowadays. What more do you like? When I meet a woman she may ask me what I do and I tell her, she may keep it in the back of her mind, like oh he's doing well for himself, but she doesn't want to dwell on my professional life. That's not what struck her interest, she believes I may have an interesting personalities, hobbies.
Here's an interesting woman to me... Hi, im amber I do social work, I like movies, love to sing/act/whatever, cook different foods, I like to workout, I love vintage, I speak 3 different languages, Iived in _____, I love the Aggies (football team), I like bmw, I love to write about media events. I've bungie jumped before, etc.
Here's me sounding like you... im trav software engineer, I write programs, I travel, I workout, I work, school, etc. ;p I almost dozed off again, in short pick up more interesting hobbies that men find interesting. If you don't want to keep being just a honey pot, put honey in there that will make men want to stick, fun girl, interesting hobbies, goals, keeper... market yourself better.0