I like this guy, but he always jokes.. I mean, he responds with a joke, he makes a joke of whatever he's talking about... I just wonder if he can ever be serious and have a real conversation. Everything is always silly banter/flirting back and forth, but we hardly seem to have a real conversation... something in depth, something real, the things that matter when that honeymoon phase feeling ends. What do I do? Or is that just his personality?
Always jokes and is never serious? How do I approach him about this?
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Say "be serious for a minute" and then state a question. Or say that you have to ask him a serious question and it is important. Then he'll usually snap out of his joking mood and be real for a little bit. If he doesn't listen to you, then he's too immature for anything and you will waste a lot of your time on him0
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