I'm 29 and since I've been like 15 I've only dated and been in serious relationships with other women. I've always been sexually attracted to men too and have had a few purely sexual relationships with guys. I've just never wanted to get in a serious relationship or date a guy.
So now I've met this awesome man. We're getting ready to go on a third date. We're both taking it slow, but I can tell we're both into possibly being more in the future. I don't want to scare him off by telling him too soon or not telling him at all and him finding out through someone else.
What should I do? How do I tell him? When do I say something? Would you be freaked out if a girl told you she's pretty much only dated women?
Any non-pervy feedback would be appreciated. Thanks!!
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Make sure you tell him all about your past, so they aren't any secrets between you, because if he finds out later on this might ruin your relationship and break your heart. And this will also be a great way to find out if he is "the one" or not. If he really loves you he wouldn't care. The moment you fell that this relationship is getting serious say something like "before we become official, they are some things you need to know about me" . Personally I don't think that this is that bad of a secret, but it's your decision wether to tell him or not. Hope this helps :)2