First here is my status with the girl I like:
We're neither friends, nor are we actually dating. It's more like we know each other and get along pretty well. We text a lot (we live 200km apart from each other) and we're flirting, too.
We've met two weeks ago and it was all fun, just watching some movies, laughing together, making dinner, etc.. a fun weekend.
Now I am to meet her again following weekend. And I mentioned we should do something together, other than just watching some movies at home. (Technically this wasn't a data invitation since I didn't make the date intention clear, but I guess she knows what I'm thinking, right? =))
So when I'm gonna be at her place I will make my intentions clear and it's pretty unlikely that she'll refuse - if so, well my bad, gotta deal with the situation when it happens - for now let's just assume it goes on like I want.
Now the situation I'm wondering about:
I gonna stay overnight again since I gotta drive 200km to her place. But in my opinions there's no way I would stay overnight after a first date, if you know what I mean ;)
So what do you girls think? Would it be too fancy if I were to say something like "Hey Y, we had a really nice evening here and I hope we will repeat this some time? Have a nice night..."
*and then kiss her, don't know on the cheek I think*
And then get casual again and strictly say "We'll here's where the date would end - I'm a nice boy you know ;) (<- this is some sort of inside joke we got - I just be the nice boy, not being mean to her at all - doesn't really work, but I insist on being that one ...)
So what do you think?
too fancy? We're both actually fun people and if she would want the date to continue on THAT evening (which I somehow doubt) she could still go with something like "Well, for you it would end here, but I got the last word, do i? *smile*"
Anyway, I'm thankful for any answer :P
(And yes, sorry I know I'm thinking way too much about all of this, hehe)
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-I think she knows what you want ,
but you'd better clear your intention as what you'd said.
-hmm,If I don't like that guy, I would not dating with him again.
But now, she has given you a second date,
means you've got a chance!
- communication is important,
as wanacot said, body languages are key!
It would show you some answer !
But I am afraid that thing goes too fast.
You'd better describe her character.
*case1*She is a considerate girl.
I think she knows you are tired and maybe...you can stay overnight.
But if I were her, I would suggest you some hotels
As I think ,staying at a room with a guy, is a matter
Well, maybe I am too conservative,
but you can't deny this situation.
*case2*she is your friend and knows you for a long time.
Maybe I would let him to sleep at my house, but in the living room,
whereas my room is locked.
objectively,"drive 200km to her place"...
I think she would let you to stay overnight.
And your hint" other than just watching some movies at home"is significant.
so I think there is no problem!