So this is something my friend did that kinda pissed my off. For about two months now she's been talking about this new guy who came to the school. Zombie Prom is coming up and she mentioned so much how she'd love to go with him. I suggested that she go ask him, but she says no it's the guy's job to asked the girl. So she waits three days from when I suggested it until it was to late. She comes up to me teary eyed saying another girl asked him and he said yes. I was feeling a bit sympathetic until she started calling the other girl a bitch and a man-stealer. At the point I had to be honest with her and say it's her fault and not the girl's. She had many chances to try, but never once took any. I know that's a bit harsh, but I couldn't stand the fact she was disrespecting someone else just because they did something she couldn't do herself. But I really curious where this crap about it being the guy's job comes from.
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Because the media has always portrayed that image in our heads it's just a stereotype don't listen to it. I've never dated anyone but I have common sense, and if it's clear you both like each other and you as the guy are too scared to say anything and the girl has more balls to do it than you and you both say yes who gives a left cheek who asked? at the end of the day you two are both happy it doesn't make one more desperate or whatever bullshit society or your friends say. its YOUR life YOUR relationship NOT theirs.0