I broke up with my sort of boyfriend on Monday. And felt really depressed on Monday and Tuesday. I broke up with him because I'm not over my last crush. and felt like it wasn't.. I think he was a rebound but I did genuinely like him... However I was depressed during the whole relationship and I don't know why. I only went out with him 3 weeks and he's really, really sad that I broke up with him :( I just think that I did the right thing!! I can't force feelings even though I want to like him. It couldn't have even been a proper relationship because we're both 14 and he didn't talk to me much and barely saw each other!! He has given me the green light to go for my old crush (that likes me now) But I'd feel bad. Even though I do think that I might a tiny bit really really love my old crush. I know now that I shouldn't have gone out with my ex but I'm dumb and I need to think things through and I will for the future...
- You shouldn't go for it.Vote A
- Yeah, you should..Vote B
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Your "EX" was Definitely a "Rebound," sweetie, that you thought with all of your heart, mind and soul searching sadness that you could have and to behold in order To-------Get over my crush. However, you realized with this relationship that you were not happy. You realized that you were still hooked to the past, couldn't focus on another fellow because you didn't give yourself enough time to lick your war wounds. It happens all the time.
Yes, in breaking this off, it was the most mature decision you could make for both you and him. And as hard as it was, it wasn't fair to him to stay in a relationship when you still had heart felt feelings for your Crush Who-----Likes me now.
You were and still Are a free agent to do as you wanted, so don't start letting Guilt get in the way of what you could have Now with someone who has realized "Now" that you are his dream girl.
No, not "dumb" at all, in fact for wise for your years. And if you have your own dream boat where you want him right now, then this is Not dead in the water... It sounds like there is nothing much to think about, is there? Be happy, be proud...
Good luck. xx0
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