I've been dating a guy I met online for about 7 weeks. We meet about 1x/wk as we are both busy, although me moreso. I work FT and study most evenings.
He usually does the asking for the next date. I have asked a couple of times, such as last week. We last got together last Saturday and we tend to always have a good time, talking, laughing, holding hands, kissing, etc. We were talking about possibly seeing a movie the next time and he also suggested we could do coursework/study together.
He texted me Sunday and Tuesday, and I responded and texted him today, Thursday... He's made no mention of meeting up again? Also, I noticed he still has his online dating profile up (I closed mine) and goes on about 1x/wk, and was on today and yesterday... hmmm... He's also told me on our last date, he's taking it one day a time with me (this is also what I told him after our 2nd date).
Is he just not that into me? Or playing it cool as I am busy (I will be done my course in 2 weeks and he knows this)...
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I usually tend to let the woman set the schedule if she has a really busy life. Not to be mean or anything, but it's really off putting to me when I'll ask a woman to hangout or go on a date and all I get is a "sorry" or "I'm busy" as a response. If he's anything like I am, he's accepted the fact that your a very busy person, and doesn't want to continue wasting conversation time on a question he already knows the answer to. If you ask him to hangout and he's really excited, then that's your answer to if he's into you. If he doesn't want to do anything or keeps making excuses, then he's setting you up for a bump and run, "bump" meaning putting distance between you and him over a period of time to get his goals and priorities in line, to set up the "run", him walking away from the relationship feeling relaxed and carefree.0