Basically the question. Does the girl always have to make the first move here. Why don't you guys do it?
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In this day and age, I always let the girl make the first move. I myself am nervous to make the first move because A.) What if she isn't ready for it, B.) If she isn't ready, how will she react, and C.) How will a negative reaction affect the both of us. I would much rather a girl tells me when she's ready and make the first move, instead of being rejected, and this is where being open and not playing games is strongly suggested. I wouldn't want to have sex with a girl whose not into it, and then have her feel upset or sad that she did something she was really on the fence about, that falls into the very grey area between consensual and rape. It's neither the Woman's or the Man's responsibility to make the first move, out dated and cliche ways say that the man should take the lead, but it's 2014, Women have a voice, as do men, so if you want something ask permission. Men aren't entitled to Women, and vice versa.1