Ok I'm getting so upset and annoyed with my bf I'm 12 weeks pregnant with his baby and he is constantly going out with his friends he never wants to spent time with me and every time he leaves all I do Is cry coz I want him to spend time with me and the only time he does is when I'm buying him lunch or something or when I make him dinner but then the 2nd he has it he ditches me I've confronted him with tears in my eyes and all he does is laugh at me or ignore I'm in tears now writing this coz it hurts a lot what can I do? Is it my fault?
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No, sweetie, it is Absolutely Not 'Your fault.' However, it Is an eye opener that now that you know you have a baby bun in the oven, he is going to continue down the beaten boyish path of Always putting you on his back burner. He is More of a problem child than you even know.
Do some soul searching. He is not only rude and crude and feeling less, but he is also giving you helpful hurtful hints that he is not raring and ready to be Committed, hooked at the hip, in a Real relationship with Not only You But----This babes in Toy land.
If he is 'laughing' at you and putting you on his pay no mind list, making his outings and other top priorities First on his list, then think of how it will get only worse when the blessed event arrives. This will surely be the bough that will break or make both of you ending up falling... cradle and all.
You could talk all you want to him until you are baby blue in the face. But bottom butt buck is telling me that he doesn't want any strings attached to you and later on, will also become not only More M. I. A. But----A dead beat dead to boot.
Good luck, God bless.0