So I met a guy online. He has a great personality, he's a few years older than I and he's successful. Exactly the type of guy I want to spend time with right now.
We've been on 2 dates. 1st was drinks at a really nice bar. We spent 5 hours together and had an amazing time. He followed the 3 day rule after that. But at exactly 72 hours after our date, he called. He actually called, which is unheard of nowadays. We talked. We determined that we can hold a good conversation in person and over the phone.
Met him for a second date exactly a week later. Went for dinner and one drink after that. Then we sat in the lounge in my apartment building and talked for an hour. He gave me a very short kiss before driving off that night.
We made plans to hang out the next weekend. We wanted to do something outdooors, maybe spend the day together and he would show me around since I'm new in town, but now it looks like it will be raining. So we discussed maybe watching a movie or binge watch Game of Thrones. Now if we end up going for GOT that would have to be at someone's house... Is that a good idea for a 3rd date? If so, should it be my place or his?
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I would say your place because he already knows where you live so it isn't like a secret anymore... & by having it at your house you have more control as too where in the apartment you explore. He isn't going to go into your bedroom unless you lead him there... Where as at his place, he could easily try and lead you to his bedroom and you may just be stuck in an uncomfortable position. :)
& if you really don't want things to end in the bedroom - you can not clean your room space so you have that in the back of your mind. lol0