i asked my gf to dye her hair and do it like scarlet Johnson in the avengers. and she snapped at me "why do you want to change me, am i not pretty enough?" like i asked her for something weird. honestly i dont give a fuck about it, i just think she would look better with that haircut.
was i wrong to ask?
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Girls get by saying this kind of thing to guys, but not the other way around. They do it all the time. You should grow a beard. You should do your hair differently. You should wear this or wear that. They will do this constantly. But the other way around is a no no. Girls are super insecure about their looks. Anything that even hints in the most vague way that something is wrong with their looks will land you in the doghouse. It's like tip toeing around because whatever you say will somehow be twisted around to be an insult.
Your choices are either:
Learn her boundaries really well so you know what you can get by with.
Learn how to be super diplomatic
Lie to her (girls will totally deny this, but if you can't do the first two then just lie and make your life easier)
When it comes to girl's looks, just take any moral beliefs you have about lying and throw them out the window. Obviously that's not going to apply to all girls, but it's a very good rule of thumb until you find out otherwise.1