They claim they are a good girl and played the dating game and didn't sleep with the guy, but then get upset if the guy finds someone else.
But then they can't let go and wonder why the guy did not like them because they did everything right and they didn't act clingy or have sex on the first date or make themselves too available.
Or they try to keep contacting the guy and put the other girl he has decided to be in a relationship down.
I mean if he does not like you then he does not like you. What is so hard to understand about that?
What happened to live and learn and let go?
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this is why girl's slut shame. Imagine having some strange notions of purity or whatever, courting a guy for months - holding out on sex to 'prove' that he likes you for you - then some girl just swoops in, fucks his brains out, and he's hooked.2