I have been seeing this man for a few months now and nothing was ever expected to be beyond having sex. We texted a lot over time? He did from time to time encourage me to seek other guys we weren't exclusive or anything its not like we could anyway. He knew I hung out a lot at this one bar and said maybe i should find someone there. Things were like this for a while and everything was all good up until recently he started acting out of the ordinary in various different ways. First of all he eventually told me he is not comfortable coming over having sex with me and leaving and I respecting so its like okay let's just be friends then and text and what not. Not too long after that went out and actually did something together other than hooking up in the bedroom each time he saw me. He asked me if I wanted to go hiking. of all the people he could have spent all of the hours he had available for the day he chose me. After that we went and walked around a store for a while then left and he kissed and hugged me goodbye. It was a wonderful day makes me think he really does like me and shows signs he wants to step things up. After the date he seemed to be pushing me more to get with a guy at the bar I hang out at often. at the same time he shows that he doesn't like it that I go to the bar so much and tries to convince me to go less often. I'm very confused because first he takes me out on a date we had a great time, then he keeps pushing me way more than he used to, to find a guy to hook up with at the bar, but yet at the same time he tries to get me away from going there as much as I do. I'm just confused and I need help trying to figure out what's really going on here?
I'm really confused about what is really going on here?
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