so first off ignore the age thingy, im 16 a junior in highschool. I've never had a boyfriend, or kissed a boy. dont get me wrong i like boys and im not ugly but i just dont think im super approachable. lately this year I've entered a new circle of friends. one guy i was partners with in an engineering class i took last year. This year we (me and that guy) really hit it off. we went to homecoming we have 2 classes together and we talk everyday. he nice but super shy. I've come to the conclusion for myself that he likes me. he's a little dry but i like him back. should i go for it? i value his friendship but at the same time I'm sick and tired of being lonely.
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Getting into a relationship because you're lonely is never a good idea. You quickly settle, and find yourself in a comfortable rut. You want someone who you wake up excited to see. Mind you, you are only 16 so you will have many relationships ahead of you, so it's always nice to gain some experience and learn more about yourself, so if you want to pursue something with this guy, go for it. Just make sure you aren't settling. High School is a bitch, you quickly feel pressure to reach milestones in your life just like people around you. Having a boyfriend is fun, but it still is work, and if you're not really into this guy, you're not going to want to work towards a future together. But again, you're 16, have fun.0