My ex and I have been talking again we got reconnected via instagram since she changed her number and deleted her Facebook. We started texting each other a lot and she seemed interested and flirting back. She picked me up and we'd go eat or I'd surprise her at work and wait for her shift to be over. It seemed like we were okay and she understood the break up. Kinda like we never broke up. Everyone kept telling her this was a bad idea and that I was no good and she ranted to me how she hated when people tell her what to do. Anyways today I invited her over to my place for lunch and when we were on the couch watching a movie I kissed her. She pushed away and looked at me. She just laughed and tried to play it cool until I asked her what was wrong. She didn't answer and just told me she had to go. I texted her and she replied "We just can't go back so quickly..." I asked her what did she mean and she hasn't replied since. I'm kind of hurt because we've been taking it slow and she did seem into me so what is it? Should I just back off?
-We dated for 9 months and 19 days before I broke up with her
-We broke 2 years ago
-We broke up because I wanted to date someone else. I emotionally cheated on her while I was away at a family retreat. This girl was my first serious girlfriend so I kind of scared that if I marry that girl would I regret it? And breaking up and hurting her was what I regret the most.
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Okay look I'm gonna use an analogy for this one...
you know how guys can break up with their girlfriend then have a booty call weeks later and not feel any attachment? Well girls do this, only with emotions. My guess is your ex just wanted to be besties, and didn't actually want a relationship.0