I would like to know if guys think a woman who is a size 6 is fat. I am in my 30s now and have gained a lot of weight through my 20s. I'm 5'9 and 160lbs now. I'm slightly (and I mean slightly bigger than I prefer) haven't been as active as I've been in the past but I'm still comfortable in my own skin unlike when I was 95lbs and a size 2 (only cuz it was next to impossible to find size 0, which always seemed odd to me, a size 0 that is, it's like you aren't really there). My current boyfriend tells me I'm fat all the time but I make up for it with my great personality apparently. Unlike when I was 95lbs of skin and bones I'm very curvy now and I love it and have never had any complaints. I'm a 34c 26 waist and a perfect booty (in my eyes anyway). He met me at my current size and was attracted to me then but now he says he just doesn't find me appealing and can't adore my body as he would like to. Am I missing something? There was also a time in my life that guys paid to be with me so I find it perplexing that I would be considered to be so hideous. I want to be loved completely. In the past guys always seemed just overly obsessed with my body and that obviously left me feeling ignored and unappreciated now this guy claims to love my mind and I feel ignored physically. Is this a relationship worth hanging on to? Should I just loose some weight? Will it make a difference? Is it possible to have it all? Am I not worth a compliment, some flowers a happy birthday a hug? I feel scorned by him and never experienced being the ugly duckling. Can someone explain what this is all about?
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Just leave him. Stop reading this, get up off your ass and pack his or your things and leave the asshole. He doesn't deserve a second more of your time.0