So, obviously if i go out to a bar, club, or party there are going to be a lot of hot girls around. Do girls get all dressed up and go out in hopes of guys giving them attention? When girls are out, are they wanting guys to approach them, or just be left alone? I see guys approach the beautiful girls all the time, but they always get rejected. Its fucking discouraging as hell and it pretty much keeps me from trying it myself. What are your intentions when you fix yourself up and go out?
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ahahaha. can't help but laugh at this question. Just because I know that I do it a lot. Honestly, I think every girl gets dressed up in the evening to impress guys when they go out to a bar or club and even get dressed up BECAUSE they are going out. when you go out to a very nice club, do you go out in dirty jeans and a sweatshirt with sneakers? Hopefully not. you like to dress up a little and even some clubs have a dress code where if you do not look good enough, they will not let you in. I know when I get dressed up to go to a club, I am getting dressed up comfortable enough to dance and drink but also dressed hot enough to get hit on. because deep down inside, no (single) girl wants to go to a club and NOT get hit on. If I go to a bar, I am dressed more relaxed. maybe leggings and boots with a nice top and minimal makeup. I see bars as more relaxing then clubs. more social. But in a club, if a girl rejects you, there are a few options as of why. (and believe me because I go clubbing a lot.)
1: he's just not that good looking (and we clearly are not drunk enough)
2: Girls travel in packs, like we're wolves. We may just be showing off for our friends and just flat out ignore you.
3: The way we were approached may have been horrible all together.
4: the girl is NOT single
5: the girl may just be there to have fun. not dance on anyone or have intentions of giving out a number.
All in all, I do not know one girl who goes out without having the hope and possibility in the back of her head of a guy to hit on her. It makes us feel pretty :) (it just has to be the right looking guy that hits on us.)1
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