How many guys or girls will talk to the opposite sex to see If they're not interested and If they're not, how many of ya will regain interest If you see that this guy or girl is being courted a lot by the opposite sex?
I guess what I'm trying to say is how many of you guys(or girls) are influenced in trying to decide If a girl is worth it by the amount of guys or girls who try to talk to that person you may or may not be interested. How important is desirability?
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I basically have been in two long term relationships for the past five years, but during the onset of "off" time that we mutually agreed to, I started dating and this was my first time playing the field. The guy I dated, was extremely good looking and it was obvious (according to his facebook) that he was desired by many other women. Not to mention he went to bars frequently and it could be assumed that he was the target of many drunken women's pursuits. He was handsome. However, this really had me nervous. like the girl below me said it is rather intimidating. It didn't work out because it seemed like he was loosing interest (less calls, less dates i.e.). Regardless of a guy's desirability, low or high, if he looses interest its time to move on.0