I feel like these are important parts to a relationship, but I'm curious to hear what other people think. If you had to talk to your bf/gf all day, could you? Would you? How in love are you? What about when you just first started dating? Was it easy to talk?
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Reading about all of you amazing couples out there that can talk for hours on end and here I am having a girlfriend that I can't even last talking to for 5 minutes lol. When we first met we were two very socially awkward teens. We could barely talk to each other but for some reason that neither of us could explain we were just so incredibly attracted to one another. After a month of some of THE most uncomfortable attempts at flirting any other pair of nerds could ever have tried, we began our relationship and at a little over 11 months later we're hardly any different haha.
Not that we don't love talking to one another, I hang off every word she speaks, but we're just incredibly boring people and have nothing to talk about. Literally all she does is go to school, go to church on Sundays, and watch anime almost every waking moment of her life when not at the other two places mentioned. I have a bit more of an interesting life but for the most part all my life is college and the occasional cool thing that I can talk about for a few minutes. All our time spent together is just us watching anime, YouTube videos, or GSN (the game show network). May not sound that eventful on its own, but any mundane activity spent together is a pretty fun one!
I CANNOT talk to her face to face. It may sound sappy, but I honestly still get nervous talking to her while gazing at her gorgeous face. After a while I put my shirt over my lips to cover myself for whatever reason I do lol. Thankfully most of the time when she's at my house she's sitting on my lap or next to me which makes talking to her much easier. If we're just sitting there in an awkward silence for a sustained period of time and have absolutely nothing to discuss or do I'll pick her up, lay her on my floor, and get very PG-13 xD.
So yes, that's my relationship in a nutshell. Two introverts fell in love and have made it almost a year together with minimal verbal communication. c:0