I've never been asked out on a date by a girl, but I understand that's becoming more common. I was just wondering, would a girl walk up to me, bold as anything and ask me to come to her place at a time convenient to her, pick her up and take her somewhere she wanted to go, pay for everything, hold open doors, pull out chairs, etc. and then take her home and walk her to her front door, like every date I've been on? Or do they offer to do all that stuff for guys? I think I'd be insulted either way. Is there something else you ask guys to do on dates? Are there different "rules"?
- I ask guys to pay for my shitVote A
- I try to get guys by buying them stuffVote B
- I have a different approach, which I will explainVote C
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I have a story for this one lol. I was going to go to homecoming alone, but decided not to last minute. I told my guy friend that I was going, and asked him to come with me. I really wanted him to come (he was hesitant), so I told him that I would pay, and drive him to homecoming. That was actually the very first date I went on lol. I didn't think of it as a date then, but it was. I picked him up, took him to dinner, we ate, and I paid. Then we went to homecoming. The "rules" were only different in that I drove him (only because he didn't have transportation though), and I paid (only because I said I would).
I'd say that, for the most part, if a girl asks you on a date, she is not expecting you to do any work. I would shame the girl who asked you to pick her up when she is the one asking you on a date. That is like asking to go on a date lol. But I think, just to be fun, some girls (I would) hold the door open for the guy, treat him "extra special", etc. I mean, you made the initiative to ask the guy out on the date, why wouldn't you lol. So yes, the rules do change a bit, in my opinion and experience.0