I'm a college student and I don't have time for a relationship. Yet I'm getting these guys who will always sit with me (repeatedly) in the cafeteria or will always be texting me. They haven't actually come out and said "I like you, and I want to go out," but they have clearly hinted at it. Usually I'll do my best to create a little distance between the two of us. Usually they get the hint but half of the time they will give me the guilt trip and start but then they start to guilt trip me by saying things along the lines of "What ever I did to make you hate me I'm sorry!" I know how it feels to get turn down and it stings, and I HATE hurting people! What is the best way to gentle make it clear from the get go that I'm not looking for a relationship, only friendship?
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easy. lie and say you have a boyfriend, that you're in love, engaged, whatever.1