Girls what do you do to get guys? And guys what do you like in a girl? I have no idea what I do wrong and what I do right. It seems that every time I like a guy he never likes me back but usually after I'm interested in them they like me or guys I don't like will like me. What is this? Anyway what do you girls do to get boys and what do you guys like in girls, thanks.
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Welcome to dating... I say that because randomnesses is oft part of the game. The best advice I can give is to associate yourself in social circles where men you like are. If he likes football, maybe go to a game or two. If he likes skateboarding, ask if he can show you some stuff. You don't have to make it a hobby but at least dabble in his interests since dating usually evolves from friends and friends usually hang with those with common interests. In other words, it gives a good medium to get to know guys who you like. That said, some aren't going to be into you and people, men and women, often are getting to know several people they are attracted to to up their odds. Note that I said getting to know and not dating. There's a fine line but absent some consent to open dating, you gotta cut off the other partners when it gets serious.
As for what guys like, it varies wildly. There are men physically attracted to all manner of women. My best advice is to take care of yourself. Basic hygiene, reasonable body weight, and just maintaining an appropriate level of self maintenance (may be little or no makeup depending on your tastes). In other words, trying to make yourself something guys want is a fools errand. You are better off just trying to hang out with guys you like and seeing where things go.
Oh, and its the 21st century so if you are tired iof things going nowhere, you can always ask guys out yourself to speed up the game so you waste less time on guys who aren't into you.
Best of luck0