I sent an email to my recent ex girlfriend her yesterday. stood up for myself and was clear that it was my last attempt to contact her. I realized this week is that her "silent treatment" is a game she has played many times. We are 48 and 46 way too old for games. I tolerated that for too long... No more!
as a matter of fact I tolerated a lot of behavior that I should have had the balls enough to put an end to. silent treatment, break ups, emotional outburst, really really low blow comments. This is all stuff I had never done to her. If I hold myself to those standards than I have no problem holding others to it as well.
Not sure where I handed her my balls and gave up my power. I am an Alpha guy and need to remember that. I know from experience that women crave that kind of guy and are repelled when a guy acts like a wimp.
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I prefer Epsilon guys. They're good at heart and know what they want.
Theta guys are usually quite nice, but tend to be very clingy, which is so not my thing.
Kappa guys can be fun for hook-ups, but that's it. Not much there in the brains-department, if you know what I mean.
Lambda guys on the other hand are the most intelligent ones, but their social awkwardness makes them undateable.
Omicron and Rho guys are prone to pathological lying and lack empathy. Forget it.
Sigma guys are simply terrible. In every aspect.
I could go on..
As for Alpha guys - no thanks. Worst kind there is.3
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