So I'll just admit it: I'm kinda shallow. I hate it but no matter what I do I can't change it.
Yes personality is important to me but I need to also be attracted to the guy. People tell me I'm a "7/10" as a girl, but I only get hit on by guys I'm absolutely not attracted to. I don't expect a male model obviously but it sucks if I feel absolutely NO attraction to any of them. Plus, I don't like approaching guys anymore because it makes me feel desperate.
I don't know if there is a way to get over looks and accept that I can't be with a cute guy unless I'm a 8+/10 female...
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PEOPLE lie... especially females lie to other females about looks. Message me your picture and I'll give you a 100% honest opinion on the 1-10 scale... then you'll know (my opinion at least).
As for the topic... guys are very much interested in looks first. This changes AFTER they get to know your personality and other things about you. Unfortunately, this isn't good for that first-attraction factor. Women seem to be different in that they are more attracted to a guy's confidence and personality before the looks. Although looks are important, I think the girl will give the guy a chance because everything isn't based on looks up-front.
Regardless... you should never settle. NEVER. If you settle, you won't be happy. If you aren't happy, you'll always been looking around and wondering... and it'll never work. Or you'll settle and make it work, and the guy you're meant to be with may walk right buy. You just can't settle.
See what you look like would help me offer a more accurate opinion, but I'm sure you have no REASON to settle. The right guy just hasn't passed by you yet.0