I'll keep this short. Met a guy, hit it off with him and we were flirting with each other. Was told he had a girlfriend, bummer, but he's still a cool guy and somebody I'd like to know.
A few weeks later he messaged me on pof. Knowing I should be cautious, I sent him a message back and gave him my number if he wanted to hang out.
He finally texted me a few weeks after that. We went out, had a good time. I asked about the girlfriend and he told me that the breakup was really recent. Hadn't told his friends yet recent. We fooled around a bit ( we have some amazing chemistry between us), but I wouldn't let it get too far as I actually wanted to see him again, I didn't want to be just a rebound, he was still hurting, and he didn't have protection. And yes, I told him all that. He left happy and all seemed well.
Two days later I texted him, "Hey! Hope your weekend is going well." His response?: " It's not. But thanks. My world has fallen apart. I should say that I won't be in contact"
I texted back that he knew how to reach me if me needed anything and I hoped things got better soon. This really sucks as he's the first guy in a long time that I've clicked with and the first decent date I've had in at least a year.
So here's my question: Should I just give him some space and contact him again in a few weeks? Should I wait until he contacts me ( we work in similar fields, we're bound to run into each other)? Or should I just give up on the first decent guy to cross my path in a very long time?
PS He's also been on Tinder since then, I know because I saw his pic
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Let it be. Take it as a loss and just know you will hit it off again with someone in the future. It'll suck now but time heals everything.0