Tonight I have my first date with this girl, and I am freaking out, because I have only ever been on one date before in my life, and it went awfully. So I'd really appreciate any advice, or words of wisdom, or anything that can help me stop freaking out.
I am freaking out about my date tonight. help me?
What Girls Said 1
Take a deep breathe. That's the first thing you need to do. And hey maybe she was nervous too?0
What Guys Said 2
what helps is this. your mindset & focus are what dictates how you perceptive things. so instead of focusing what am I gonna say next? and what are we going to do? and what if it goes bad? start to redirect your focus towards things that are positive with questions. example: what am I going to wear? what is the restaurant menu like? instead of asking what do I say next pay attention to what she is saying and how she feels when she talks about that subject. WOMEN ONLY WANT 3 things from a man. to be loved, to be listened to, and have their feelings understood. so don't get stuck in your head thinking what if but rather start to ask yourself what is she saying? how does she feel? & I guarantee everything will be perfect.1
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