I'm really curious about this because I'm one of those girls that doesn't want a guy buying me dinner and such on the first couple dates. I'd rather go dutch until we get to know each other more and then we could take turns paying. Is that weird though to a guy? It's not about being independent or anything like that; to me, it's simply that I don't want someone I barely know paying for me and such. How would you tell a guy this on a first date?
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To me thats great, that a women or men likes to pay thier way. Why should the guy or girl pay for the date. At end of the day, its only a date and having fun, that means getting know each other, before getting into a relationship.
I agree with the fact, men should ask the women out. But not paying for everything for her or him paying for everything, in terms of dates etc. Women in the west can get better jobs, and still have the potential to get better jobs then men. I think feminism is great, because women still get treated unfairly in other parts of the world.
I am not saying all women do that, expect men to pay for everything. In fact there are some very kind women out there that pay for everything for a man. I know that for a fact. Some men take advantage of those nice ladies out there.
Its just a shame, relationships or getting into relationships, is about who pays. They should both pay. love shouldn't be based on who pays.0