When i start to like a guy i find myself wanting to text, call, and hang out with them whenever i can. Why does this happen to girls but it doesn't seem like it is the same for guys? How can i prevent myself from becoming too clingy and attached before he walks away? Any helpful advice is appreciated!
Why do girls get emotionally attached in a romantic relationship so quickly?
What Guys Said 5
The other guy has it right: Some guys (I'm one of 'em) consider texting to be bland. There's no personality in it, its slow, and you cannot eat or play while doing it, unlike actual verbal conversation.
It's highly likely that he would just rather be there with you than to constantly text.
If this is the case, then you'll score bonus points if you're sparing with the texts, only sending occasional message, especially if they're useful. ("Do you wanna hang out, today?" As apposed to, "Hey, whatcha doing? Lol!" )0
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Yeah' I too need answers on this :30
Because they feel lonely.0
Not just girls do.. I do too0
They probably feel like the more they fall the more the guy will want her and or give her sex0
What Girls Said 1
I think it's pretty normal to want to text and hang out all the time with someone you've caught feelings for (because you're really eager for the relationship to blossom) but I think it's a matter of not acting on those impulses. Keep in mind that you don't want to be a bother. So even though you may want to continue that text conversation even though he's starting to give you one word answers, and even though you may want to call to see if you can hang out with him every other day even though he hasn't contacted you in a while, don't. Just don't.1
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