My girlfriend, not that I ask like a perv or try to force it, has never let me see her boobs. I was fine with it up until today when she told me her ex boyfriend has seen them. She told me that he apparently pressured her (which I don't doubt) but I just don't understand why still because she still gave in very easily to him pressuring her about that compared to other things I've heard about. For instance he pressured her to let him touch her down there and she refused easily but this he was going to pull up her shirt and she stopped him but he said "come on" and she let him. The reason why I'm concerned is because its been a solid 5 months of dating her and it's never come up. I've asked her how far she's gone as well as her asking me and she never told me. To be 1000% honest yes I am a little jealous but I just don't know what to think. It gave me an anxious, uncomfortable feeling like when your about to barf your brains out more than once. Please give me some guidance? I'm not at all someone who will force her to do anything but I just don't understand how she could give in easily to him and never show me let alone tell me it ever occurred. If I showed my junk to my ex girlfriend because I was pressured (which very well couldve happened (bad bad bad situation of whipping)) I would tell my girlfriend and if she wanted to I would show her too so I just don't get it?
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I'm pretty sure she doesn't wana show u because..
Well she probably showed her ex cus she thought they'd be together for a longgggg time, so when they broke up she REGRETTED showing him. The thing is she doesn't want to regrett showing you her boobs when u guys break up, so thats why she won't show u. I'm like 85% positive this is why.
The second reason is that her ex might have not liked them? Or critiqued them so she afraid you'll do the same and won't show u cus of that.
These r the 2 most likely possibilities but I'm almost certain the first is whats goin on here.1
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