So I've known this girl for 8months during the final year of highschool. We did not date due to her commitment with gymnastics and obviously school. We obviously like each other a lot and agreed to date once school is finished.. which is when the problems started.
I suggested the first date, She ended up cancelling, but rescheduled. She was about to cancel the rescheduled date again! but she ended up going anyway. The date turned out great! lots of connection, positive body language, touching initiated by both me and her and a kiss at the end, nothing like those awkward FIRST DATES (probably due to us already knowing each other for so long).
Anyway, I followed up later that evening and asked if she enjoyed the day aswell as interested in me and would like to continue. She said YES to both, but quickly suggested she would be busy for a whole MONTH? (various things)
This really got me wondering, if she's interested and is always happy when she's with me, then why is it so hard to ask her out? (By the way, her reason for almost cancelling the second time on our first date was due to her needing to work, which turned out to be a lie since she was on Facebook afterwards the entire time lol)
some of my thoughts are:
she's telling the truth that she is indeed busy getting her life on track after school?
is she not interested? (even though signs shows she is)
She's mentally not ready for a relationship?
She just wanted attention, nothing serious like dating?
Anyone had similar experiences? help welcome! Thanks
Also should I tell her my exact feelings if I manage to ask her out again? or would that come off as desperate? Cheers
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I'd say wait a month and see what happens... I work but I do go on Facebook on my phone.. and I'm working 2 jobs.
Also the moment you assume (makes an *ass* out of *u* and *me*) that she is lying about needing to work.
And even if she isn't working, and asks to wait a month, give her some space and don't get too clingy.1