I work under a general manager w/ two places. One of those places I work occasionally. The first time I worked at the occasional place my manager and I hit it off. The other girl I worked with reported him to HR for hitting on me. He got moved but we still work for the same company. We went on a first date, but it was held at my apartment bc we couldn't be seen. He came over and we talked, ate dinner, and messed around. He ended up staying the night, no sex. We woke up in each others arms and he ended up staying over till noon the next day. During that time he told me he could see himself dating me. Our communication has been on and off for about a week and a half bc of our company. He's been in trouble with the company so we have to keep it secretive. We hungout again and this time at his apartment. I went over and we cuddled, talked, gazed into each others eyes for long periods of time with no words, etc.. we did have a few intense make out sessions but no intercourse. He looked at me and told me that he wanted me and I asked for elaboration, bc I didn't know if he meant sexually or not. He said, well of course i want you sexually, but i mean wanting like wanting to be with someone. I really like the guy, and he calls me babe/baby. I just don't know if this is all real or not. The communication has been so iffy. There is a 7 1/2 year age gap. Age doesn't matter to me, but he usually dates older women. Is he toying with me and blaming the company…or is it real? HELP.
- Stick AroundVote A
- Drop Him like a hot pan.Vote B
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There's a good reason he got in trouble for hitting on you. Two people dating in the same company cause a fuckton of problems and it should be kept separate. Think more about your career (if this a workplace you currently enjoy) or just think about your own wellbeing in the long run taking possible breakup into account.0