So short and sweet.
Nice guys think that because they've got a good personality, that should be enough to get dates. A mistake, to be sure, but many nice guys fail to learn and make themselves sexually attractive to get a girl.
Fat girls think that because they've got a good personality or whatever, that should be enough to get dates. A mistake, to be sure, but how many fat girls do you see working out to make themselves sexually attractive so they can get a guy?
Basically, they both epic fail because they don't make themselves sexually attractive to get a partner, and quite often refuse to change/better themselves. So, the fat girl is basically the same as "the nice guy."
- Yep, fat girls are female nice guysVote A
- No, very differentVote B
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Until we have to hear "Why won't you date me, I'm a FAT GIRL isn't that all that matters?" it won't ever be the same lol.
The thing with nice guys is that, niceness is such a generic and common trait. If your defining trait is just being nice, you don't have much to offer. Everyone is described as nice at some point.
And what's even worse is that I hear guys on this site say shit like "I was nice... but now I'm not because girls don't like me. So I'm gonna be a dick and treat everyone like shit."
Hold up- so you're saying you were nice until you didn't get your way? That doesn't sound too nice to me. And nice people aren't nice because they're expecting something in return. Also, most guys who call themselves nice guys feel entitled to women because they're nice. "Well... I don't hit girls! I've never hit a girl! I don't hit it and quit it! I'm not a jerk! Like, I think rape is bad and stuff!" O RLY, is that all it takes to be a good candidate for a date? THE ABSENCE of awful traits? Doesn't make you a good person.
Fat girls and fat guys do deserve love, but they can't blame someone for not dating someone they're not attracted to. Personality does count, but they need to drop the weight first. I'm not quite as annoyed when they complain. At least for them they can easily remedy their problem. Nice guys are just brats with an inability to communicate to girls properly and thus, blame them for their lack of sex and love.
by the way I'm referring to "Nice Guys" not genuinely nice guys.2
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