Let's make a scenario here;
A guy and a girl flirt CONSTANTLY! They've been friends for some time now.
They obviously have sexual and emotional tension going on between them...
They conversed about being together, hooking up as a starting point!
A conversation such as this [one of many] took place on Monday. On Sunday, she sends him a text message reminding him of his 'fantasy' and asks him where he is right now, so she can finally come over!
Would he take it as a joke, or treat it seriously, or tread in between those two territories trying to assess if she was actually serious or not?
What kind of a feeling goes through his mind/body/soul at that moment?
What would his response be?
[Guys, please try putting yourself in this kind of a position!]
Most Helpful Girl
I go by experience and most of the time, fantasy is better than the reality. However, I would think that he would take it seriously, but since you guys have been "teasing" each other for a while now, he may just play it safe and fish around a bit more. If all you want is sex, go for it.
I once dated this guy, who was extremely hot, but he was very busy with medical school (he told me that on one of our dates). I wasn't interested in having anything with him at that point. A couple of days later, I came home from work (I was much younger and living with a friend) and my friend had the tequila out. We proceeded to do a couple of shots. I then called up this guy and told him, I just got done doing tequila shots... Want to come over? He was over in a flash and of course, we had some good fun sex.
I actually ran into him a few years later ( I had a boyfriend who I was in love with at the time). This guy tried to give me his business card and asked me out, even after I told him several times, no.. I have a boyfriend, etc.