I'm unhappily married with children. Basically just sticking around for kids. I'm head over heels for a coworker. He's a big flirt, but shy and doesn't communicate his feelings but I know he likes me too. Went out after work one night for some drinks. We we said our goodbyes he gave me the tightest hug and a couple of kisses. A week later we go out again for drinks. Later on we say out goodbyes and gives me another big hug, I leaned over for a kiss and he turned his cheek so I would kiss that I
Instead. I was completely devastayed.
I'm so confused and I dont know what to do. Any thoughts ot sugrdyopnf
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So, have you ever lost everything that is important to you?
If you have, you are about to do it again. If you haven't, prepare to see what it feels like.
I strongly discourage you from continuing your present course. I understand that your marriage sucks, and when your marriage sucks your whole life sucks. I'm married too, and when my wife and I are in a tiff I can tell you that life itself will change color and the days become long, unfun, and full of misery. That is why I nip it in the bud, and I put a lot of effort into our problem solving and growing our problem solving skills.
If it is just too much for you, try counseling. If your counselor sucks, try other types of counselors. If you walk on this one, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. If you think you can cheat on the side and not get caught, you are probably wrong and you probably will. It is very possible that you will end up being hated by your kids too. Even if your husband is super craptastic, for being the one cheating you'll go down as the mom that ruined the home and emotionally abandoned the family (even though your love for them is completely unwavering), and they'll grudge on you for years, decades, perhaps their entire lives.0