Ok im 18 turning 19 in three months I been talking to a guy for a month and he ask me out we have a lot of connection but he is 26with 3beautiful kids I have never meet him in person not yet we r going to... my mom think it is inappropriate is it... he thinks he a petafile... I know he not he a great guy and wants to be happy is this wrong my mom won't let him come here but she can't stop me from seeing my king and this wrong or is my parents wrong? Pleas help me... if u need more information just ask
- its inappropriateVote A
- it fine were both adultsVote B
- my parents need to realize im happyVote C
- or this whol situation is messed up i agree with ur parentsVote D
Most Helpful Guy
Well, he is age 26 with 3 kids, how many other women
does he chat with online that he never tells you about?
Your mom is slandering the guy calling him pedophile
you know that's crime she is committing?
A say take this slow to you get to know this guy
also your mom shouldn't be so quick to judge
karma's a bitch tell her i said so.0
Most Helpful Girl
I feel that you are Old enough, daisyjay, to make up your own Mature mind as to Who you want to date or even pick as a mate. And even if it isn't the Prince Charming mom and dad have in Mind for you, it's your life, your decision and they should learn to accept it, whether you make a mistake or not.
Being you have not met him just yet and mom is being stubborn in having him for dinner, Meet up with him yourself First and if he brings the kids, then okay, All the merrier.
To be fair to mom, it does take a very special person to take on someone else's baggage. A lot of time and effort, conquering Any obstacles that may come about, is only a few things on the list to Expect and Remembering That: His own will always be on his "List" of Priorities. She may be being too judgmental, but it all boils down to the fact of him most likely having this caboose on his end.
And if things go wishing well like you are hoping they will, maybe in time, you can convince your parents to have him over To----Meet the parents.
Good luck, God bless. xx0