When it comes to girls and relationships I'm just so insecure. I have no problem becoming friends with girls, my two bestfriends that i hang out with are girls. But anyway, i feel like any girl that I get into a relationship with is too good for me, or I question why she would even want me or want to stay with me in the first place.
Talking to girls is absolutely NOT the problem, believe it or not I get approached by girls so that part isn't the problem. How can I be less insecure and more confident with myself? I always start to think, oh why would she chose me over that guy or something stupid like that. Or maybe she'll become attracted to someone else and leave me.
I honestly don't know what to do at this point.
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"i feel like any girl that I get into a relationship with is too good for me"
self image. your self image is not strong. fix it. no one is too good for another one in the same level of intelligence and beauty. if you can be friends with a girl and your thoughts are similar as well as having compatible standards then there's no 'too good' here.
"why she would even want me or want to stay with me in the first place."
because she has needs as much as you have. the exact feeling that pushes you to approach her exists inside her but in a silent suppressed shape.
and why should she choose you over that guy? why she shouldn't? ask this instead.
you have a fear of rejection. that is your problem. there is always a chance that one does not prefer you. as you fear rejection and not being preferred, the moment that you want to approach, this thought takes over your mind. and get twisted to questions from questioning the situation to questioning your own attractiveness. do not question.
know what you are and your advantages and also level. know that a single girl may be more needing than you are. approach and do not fear rejection. there are tones of women that may not prefer you and prefer others over than you. there are also many who may prefer you over others, depending on your attractiveness, health, and overall your type.2