I have noticed that some girls I know (white girls), who are dating interracially, are obssesed with their relationships. It seems that they would like to point out that they are with a black guy: posting pictures of mulatto babies on they facebook, writting things about races (a white man, a black man etc). I mean, all you can see on their Facebook profile are black athletes, black singers, mulatto kids, pictures with people with different color of skin. I don't get it.
Just to avoid confussions - I'm white and my boyfriend is black but it's not our color the crucial thing in our relationship. I'm wondering, is it just me, is it just girls from this part of the world different or is it common. What is your opinion?
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I haven't noticed it but I know why. My sister is the only one that does this.
It's her way of trying to blend - or force blending within her family and friends. She's trying to show pride in her decision. It's a stupid way to try and get acceptance where she thinks there isn't any but it's going to make her feel better about her uncertain decision.
It's absolutely not wrong for people to justify their actions this way but it can go overboard.1