I started dating this guy a little over a week ago. He's on a trip this week-weekend partially for business and also to see his aunt. He texted me yesterday when he got there, but I haven't heard from him since.
I'm pretty sure he actually likes me.. and doesn't just want me for sex, but I still can't quite tell? I know that is terrible. We haven't had sex, but I'm sure if I offered he'd do it. We aren't in a committed relationship or anything.
Anywho, is it weird that I haven't really heard from him? The first week we dated we texted every day all day. The second week he texted me occasionally throughout the day. This half of this second week he hasn't been texting much at all.
I get that he's busy, I'm not really upset. Just more concerned that he's lost interest or isn't busy... maybe it's too early to even be concerned? What do you think?
- Yes, that's a bad sign that he's lost interestVote A
- No, that's not a bad sign, he may just be busyVote B
- Other - hasn't been long enough, not a big deal, something else, explain!Vote C
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Relax, don't rely on texting as your sole method of communication with this guy, later tonight at a appropriate time that you know he most likely isn't working give him a call and talk to him. They say distance makes the heart grow fonder I find that to be true, by texting everyday you kill what communication there would be once together. If you know everything that is going on while on his trip there wouldn't be anything of substance to talk about it in person.1
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