My ex from 2 years ago is celebrating her 21st birthday tonight. I wasn't invited because some of the people going don't get along with me. Now here's the thing; when we broke up 2 years ago we made a proposition with each other: If in a few years time we don't find anyone that brings as much joy or happiness, we start fresh and try dating again, not a reunion, but a true restart. Well, she's dated quite a few scumbags and guys who just weren't mature. I've dated some girls that ended up crazy, cheaters, but one made me decently happy, alas our paths separated, and I've been alone since then. I gave the proposition to her and she said she thought it might be worth a shot.
I know we're not dating or exclusive yet, but is it okay that I'm jealous that I wasn't invited to her main bash - we went out drinking last night - and other guys were?
- Justified JealousyVote A
- Unjustified JealousyVote B
- What Are You Thinking?Vote C
- No BiggieVote D
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She's allowed to be her own person and enjoy company without worrying about inter-friend drama. She went out with you the other night with no problem. Before you get back into this relationship (granted that you do), you're going to need to rein in any jealous tendencies of yours.1