I have a friend who has been dating a man for about 2-3 months now but it still falls under the casual banner. They have been friends for several years before that. She is divorced and has 3 kids. He has never been married and has no kids. She is early 30s and he is in his late 20s. They can't see each other during the week due to distance between homes and her responsibilities.
She publicly lays claim to the situation by posting photos of them together on Instagram, using kissing emojis on his photos, tagging him in photos, etc. However, he never does anything publicly including even liking her photos or even acknowledging the relationship via any sort of public media. I have my own theory as to why but I would some opinions first please. She says he's swept her off her feet and he buys her nice gifts, etc.
He follows random women on Instagram every now and then (usually for a few short hours) which I do find strange. He does have a bit of a rep as a player but if he's single, then he's gonna date around I think.
Is this a timing thing? It's nobody else's business but ours thing? He was very public with his last official girlfriend.
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Because a lot of women spend all kinds of time evaluating men before they're willing to give them a chance. They pick apart the guy and see if he meets her laundry list of expectations. Once the guy finally gets a chance she's mostly made up her mind on him. He on the other hand is just starting his evaluation to determine if she's worth his time and commitment. Share early on who you are, take off the mask, be a giver, and show you're worth it and your wait time will be reduced.0