We dated for 4 months. He was chasing me the entire time. He mostly initiated contact , talked about meeting his family and my family, talked about us moving in. It seemed strange to me at first because weve only met about 15 times and saying all those things is too soon, Then he broke up with me after i invited him to my aunts birthday. He said he doesn't feel the spark anymore. How could someone suddenly change their mind. Was him coming on ao strong inthe beginning a red flag?
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I hate to say this, but it sounds like you might have been a rebound. You said he misses his ex and 8 years is a long time to be with someone, he might have been coming on strong to convince himself that he could move on and isn't still hung up on his ex. Although he spoke about the future with you, actions speak louder than works and when you invited him to a family event it might have been too much for him if he wasn't really ready.1