So me and this girl were dating for 2 months. Not long but I naturally started falling for her. We got along great, she always came over and spent the night with me. We would go out ect. She even invited me to go with her family to a football game a few hours south of where we live. Keep in mind every time we were together it was great. Holding hands, kissing and being a cute couple (sounds lame I know haha) then out of the blue 2 days after the game she texts me saying that me and her are not a good match.
My reply was sorry to hear that and good luck. I have not spoken to her since. Do I have the right to be pissed? I treated her with respect, was good to her and showed her how a man should treat a girl he cares for.
I tell myself she must have met another guy becouse thats the only thing that makes any since.
I have a feeling she will regret it. I was great to her. Anyways I'd like to hear what others think. What do you think happened and do you think she will regret it.
Side note I'm 22 and she's 21. I know she had a bad past with relationships. Then I showed up out of the blue and she always said I treat her very different then past BFs.
Thanks for the input
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There could be many reasons but i think 1) since she's had bad relationships and you're a good guy so she doesn't wanna burden you with her emotional distress she's acquired FROM those bad relationships. OR 2) Those bad relationships gave her trust issues and she doesn't wanna burden you with them. OR 3) She felt you were falling way faster than she was and she didn't wanna run the risk of hurting you since she didn't feel as strongly for you. OR 4) The idea of you was nice and it was nice having you there at the time but you weren't legitimately the right guy for her.
And you have the right to feel how ever you feel because they're "feelings" We can't make a conscious decision to feel a specific emotion. And I can sympathize with your frustrations. :)0