Okay, so I'm dating this girl, a bit of background, she says she's unromantic, and I think she's also not very comfortable socialising.
2 weeks ago she celebrated my birthday by treating me and buying me a gift, which I said wasn't necessary but she did it anyway. Which gives the impression that she's committed and willing, right?
So back to now. Because we didn't meet last weekend, I sent her a text message saying I missed her. She didn't reply. It wasn't the first time that happened. She claims she forgets messages when it gets buried. But this is whatsapp, and so I do see that she was online and using the app.
Slightly annoyed, I texted her again, expressing my slight irritation at being ignored, and she texted back, "how the heck am I supposed to reply to that [first message that I missed her]?" in her typical blunt fashion (another reason why she's bad at socialising). I said she could just text back anything at all, cause leaving it hanging is just upsetting. She didn't reply. It's been a 2 days since.
What is her intention of not replying? The more I think about it, the more irritated I get with her. I do feel like setting an ultimatum for myself, if she doesn't reply then neither shall I send anything else.
That this is a rather sudden 360 reversal in attitude is what kept me doubting. But I don't see why would she want to annoy me this way.
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Sounds to me like you should calm down and take a step back. Some people like their space. If she has a introverted personality like it sounds, then even more so. Doesn't mean she doesn't like you. The way your handling it though with being demanding in wanting an explanation will come off as very needy and overbearing. And will in turn push her away. Burning bridges before you even got there. Just some advice. Been there done that. Its frustrating waiting to hear back when your into someone. Mind starts racing with all kinds of different thoughts and reason. But that's just how it works out. Go about your business as usual and if she cares she will get back to you.0